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Living a balanced life

   Posted by: matthewpiccolo   in Personal improvement

Ever tried to juggle twelve bowling pins while walking across a tight rope?  I hear it’s pretty hard to do.  What about staying sane while simultaneously trying to be a productive employee or student, fulfill your church calling, care for your family and friends, keep your house and health in order, attend the temple, study the scriptures and other good books, participate in civic affairs, and do everything else you want to do or think you should do?  That’s a pretty challenging feat, too.

I’ve written recently about the importance of living a simple life.  Closely related to this concept, and equally important,  is living a balanced life.  A simple life is good, but it is even better when it includes a variety of activities and when its executor does not run faster than he or she has strength.  We must do all things in wisdom and order.

What does it mean to live a balanced life?  Let’s first list some characteristics of an imbalanced life:

  • Working 12+ hours each day
  • Playing video games or watching Youtube videos all day
  • Reading the scriptures all day
  • Sleeping less than is reasonably needed
  • Trying to accomplish more in one day than is physically, mentally, or emotionally possible

In other words, it is best to divide our time among various worthy activities.  True, some days we may need to dedicate extra time to, say, family or work.  Perhaps even over the course of a semester as a student or a 5-year period as a bishop we may need to focus more on specific activities, but, generally, we should strive for balance.  Also, we should also try to accomplish everything of which we are capable each day but nothing more.  We simply can’t do everything we’d like to do.  Elder Maxwell said this:

We unwisely often write checks against our time accounts as we never would dare do, comparably, against our bank accounts. Sometimes we make so many commitments, they become like the vines in the allegory of Jacob, threatening to “overcome the roots,” including the roots of family relationships, friendships, and relationships with God. (Neal A. Maxwell, “Wisdom and Order,” Aug., 25, 1993)

Some people run about frantically from event to event or chore to chore while oblivious to the simple joys of life.  Even when going about doing good, frenzied industriousness is not orderly and is not necessarily wise.   In the same talk, Elder Maxwell also said this:

Somehow, giving unhurried time is a greater gift even if the minutes or hours are technically the same as when hurried.

It is best to determine which activities are “good,” “better,” and “best” for us to do, as Elder Oaks has explained, and then to start with the “best” activities and work our way down the list.  I have found great satisfaction in working to accomplish those goals and daily tasks that are most important to me while keeping things simple and balanced.  Living a simple, balanced life is one good way to do things in wisdom and order.

What do you think?

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4 comments so far

Steve
 1 

You know you are reading too many political blogs if you start using the word “executor” in your personal blog posts. :)

September 23rd, 2009 at 7:03 pm
matthewpiccolo
 2 

Ha! I actually think it’s from reading too much Elder Maxwell.

September 23rd, 2009 at 8:55 pm
Rebecca Baron
 3 

Good thoughts. This is a lot of the focus on my personal goals right now. For me, I’ve kind of decided that if I spend less time doing things like work then I will naturally do more of the “best” things since it seems like I always intend to do them but don’t seem to have near as much time for them.

October 5th, 2009 at 8:00 pm
matthewpiccolo
 4 

Yeah, Becca, I try to do that too. One thing I’ve found that has helped is making sure I do what is most important before I do other things. This might sound like a silly example, but often when I get home from I work I try to iron my clothes and do whatever else I need to do to be ready for work the next day because I know I need to do that stuff at some point and if I get distracted doing other things, then I’ll end up doing them when I should be in bed. But I think with anything, especially essentials like scripture study and the temple, if we make sure we do those things first, then we can do whatever we have time to do after that. Of course, work is pretty important too, but we have to decide what is most important.

October 5th, 2009 at 9:58 pm

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